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After that near-therapeutic, muscle-relaxing body rub, let's move on to the dermal stimulation body rub. This session is designed to stimulate the middle layer of skin. That is much easier to do than it might sound! And in fact you have done it to yourself every day of your life, and your significant other has probably done that for you a few times as well. It is as simple as a scratch. But try to convince her to scratch your body all over – 100% – and you'll find it an unlikely scenario.

But that is exactly what I do. In this 2nd type of body rub, I go back over all 6 divisions, all 20 sub-parts, all 40 sub-sub-parts, once again – with a gentle scratching technique. A scratching session of the whole body is one of life’s grandest pleasures.

Please allow me to describe in detail how I perform my Scratching Session.

You should already be lying on the table face down, back up. This is because we started the Near- Therapeutic Session with you on your back for the first 50 minutes, then flipped you face down for the last 10 minutes. So I will start our Scratching Session with you face down, back up.

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Remember, this is a gentle scratch – no marks!! If you want more pressure on certain areas, just ask for more pressure (i.e., just say “scratch harder, please!”). I will not leave any physical marks – just emotional traces!!!!

I will start Session 2 by scratching your scalp. All of us humans are just like dogs in this respect: the love of having our heads scratched! After that, I will move on to a great back scratch. I use two techniques to scratch your back: the Straight Line Technique and the Mow-the- Lawn Technique. I will let you tell me which Technique you prefer. And I use four different sets of scratches: ten fingernails, five fingernails, two fingernails (two index fingernails), and one fingernail (one index fingernail).

I will start with the Straight Line Technique. To begin, I will softly place all ten of my fingernails on that point of your neck where your hairline ends. I will slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down the center of your back – over your spinal column, which I did not touch during our Near-Therapeutic Session – all the way to the bottom of your back and top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the CONTINUITY!!

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I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about two inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the continuity!!

I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about four inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will lift my right hand up and move it back to your neck, but about four inches over toward the right side of your body. Then I will lift my left hand up and move it back to your neck, but about two inches over toward the left side of your body. I do not lift both hands off at the same time because I do not want to break the continuity!!

I will follow this process until I have scratched as far to your sides as possible – down to the table!! That is just one trip down the back. Now I will use a second technique to scratch your back, and then I’ll ask you which technique you like better.

The second technique, the Mow-The- Lawn Technique, is very similar to the first technique, the Straight Line Technique, but it eliminates the problem of breaking continuity. In this technique, my ten fingernails remain on your back the entire time.

I will softly place all ten of my fingernails on that point of your neck where your hairline ends. I will slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down the center of your back – over your spinal column, which I did not touch during our Near-Therapeutic Session – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. Then I will move my ten fingernails outward – five to the right and five to the left, of course – as far out as they can go, which probably is the point where your sides meet the table! Then I will bring all ten of my fingernails straight upwards until I reach your shoulder. Then I will move all my ten fingernails inward toward the center of your neck, until I reach a point about two inches from your spinal column. This process is just like mowing the lawn!!

Now I will once again slowly bring all ten of my fingernails straight down your back – but now I am about 2 inches away from each side of your spinal column – all the way to the bottom of your back, top of your butt. From there, I will continue to “mow your back” until your back has been completely mowed. Who knew mowing could be such a thrill?

Now I have made one pass using Technique 1 (Straight Line) and one pass using Technique 2 (Mow-The-Lawn). I’ll ask you which one you liked better. Then I’ll repeat that process several more times. I will change sets – first using 10 fingernails, then using 5 fingernails from 1 hand, then using 2 index fingernails, then using just 1 index fingernail.

After that, I’ll expand the range of my scratching – this time going all the way from the neck to the ends of your toes! I will use whichever technique you liked for just the back. Then I’ll repeat that process several more times. And with 10, 5, 2 fingernails and then 1 fingernail.

Then I will reduce the range of my scratching – this time going from the top of your butt to the ends of your toes. Then I will further reduce the range of my scratching – this time going from the back of your knees to the ends of your toes. Then I will further reduce the range of my scratching – this time going just from your heel to the ends of your toes. And I will go through the 10-5- 2-1 system.

Then I will do the back sides of your arms – going from your shoulders to your fingertips using 10 fingernails, then 5 fingernails, then 2 fingernails, then 1 fingernail. And I will keep reducing the range of my scratching – back of elbows to fingertips, then wrists to fingertips. And with each I may go through the 10-5- 2-1 system.

After that, it will be time to flip onto your back so I can repeat this for the front side of your body!! I am going to do something to you that no one has ever done before – I am going to scratch every cell of your face – except your eyelids!! I would say “every square inch of your face” but your face is not square, it is round. Again, this is a light, gentle scratch – no marks! You have no idea how wonderful it feels to have your face scratched – but now you will know it is something you will want to have on a regular basis! Even your ears will receive my tender loving attention!

Then I will scratch your front side in the same manner as I scratched your back side – starting with Technique 1 (Straight Line Technique) from neck to waist once, then with Technique 2 (Mow-The- Lawn Technique) from neck to waist once, then two or three times using your preferred technique, then two or three times using your preferred technique from neck to feet. And I will vary from 10 fingernails to 5 fingernails to 2 fingernails to 1 fingernail. Then, as with the back side, I will reduce the range – waist to the ends of your toes, then knees to the ends of your toes, then ankles to the ends of your toes. And I will use the 10-5- 2-1 system for each reduction.

Then I will do your arms. Needless to say, I will follow pretty much the same pattern for the arms – starting at your neck and coming down to your fingertips. However, I will now add a new twist: after the first pass at mowing the arms/hands, I’ll switch over from using ten fingernails to using just five fingernails, then two fingernails (two index fingernails), then one fingernail (the index fingernail of one of my hands) – from the neck all the way down to the end of your thumb. Then I’ll ask whether you prefer the feeling of all ten of my fingernails, five fingernails, two fingernails, or just one of my fingernails.

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Once I know whether your prefer ten, five, two or one, I’ll repeat the process a few times on each of your arms/hands. And I will reduce the range – elbow to fingertips, wrists to fingertips. And I will use the 10-5-2- 1 system for each reduction.

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And from here, I will be ready to start Session Three.

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SESSION 3: THE EPIDERMAL SESSION (FINGERTIP TOUCHING):

Now the Second Session, the Scratching Session, has ended. It is time to begin the Third Session – the Fingertip Session. The Third Session, the Fingertip Session, is designed to soothe and calm the outer layer of the skin (the epidermis). During this session, I will use just my soft fingertips using very, very light touches. It feels as gentle as the sensation of a single feather gently moving across your skin. It feels heavenly. For many parts of your body, this will feel like tickling! For those areas, we will either apply more pressure to eliminate that tickling sensation or we will skip over those areas!

You should already be lying on the table face up. We ended the Second Session, the Scratching Session, with your feet. We will begin the Third Session, the Fingertip Session, with your face! So I will need to wash my hands at this point. Has anyone ever lovingly caressed your face? If so, you know that a gentle touching of the face says “I Love You” more effectively than words can ever communicate!

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You came to me for a body rub, a physical touching to relax your muscles and provide pleasure to your skin. Yet in reality a mere physical touching is not quite enough if it is not done in a caring, loving manner. A robot can touch you, but you will never feel emotionally satisfied. Only a human can touch you in a caring, loving manner that satisfies you emotionally. And only a woman who is genuinely interested in you can satisfy you emotionally as well as physically.

No part of the body – NO PART – says “I Love You” as much as the face. However, you can’t tell if someone loves you just by looking at their face. They may be beautiful, they may be smiling, but to really know, it takes more than a look. It takes a touch. If you want to know how love feels, it’s in the touching of your face. I am going to touch your face in a way that effectively says “I Love You” and makes you feel emotionally satisfied!! If you want to know how love feels, it’s in my touching of your face.

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After I lovingly caress your face, first with all ten fingertips, then with just five fingertips, then with just two index fingertips, then with just one index fingertip, it will be time to move on to the rest of your body. Let’s start at your neck and then move on to your waist. We’ll use the same kind of techniques that we used for the scratching – ten fingertips in straight lines (Technique 1) and then ten fingertips in a lawn-mowing fashion (Technique 2). Once you tell me your preference, we’ll repeat that process two or three times.

After that, I’ll expand the range of my gentle touching – this time going all the way from your neck to the ends of your toes!! I will use whichever technique you liked for just the chest area. Then I’ll repeat that process two or three more times. Then I switch sets. I will repeat the neck-to- toes process using five fingertips from one hand, then again using two index fingertips, then again using one index fingertip. I will ask which you like the best and use that. And then I will reduce the range of my touches – waist to ends of your toes, knees to ends of your toes, ankles to ends of your toes. And I will use the 10-5- 2-1 system with each reduction.

After that, it will be time for the arms. Needless to say, I will follow pretty much the same pattern for the arms – starting at the neck and coming down to ends of your fingertips. Then I will use the 10-5- 2-1 system. And then I will use the same reducing systems that I used in Session 2: elbows to fingertips, wrists to fingertips. And I will use the 10-5- 2-1 system with each reduction.

Now it is time to roll over yet again. Now the back side of your body will receive the same kind of treatment that it received before for the Scratching Session, but this time with the soothing, gentle, loving touches of my soft fingertips instead of the scratching of my fingernails. But this time we’ll add a bit of a twist. After being completely finished with the back side of your body, I will spend two or three minutes giving super gentle touches all over your butt, starting with several passes using ten fingertips, ending with several passes of just two fingertips that slowly slide down the crack toward the most intimate areas of your body!!”

Now the Third Session, the Fingertip Session, comes to a close. It is time to begin the Final Session of our time together – the Erotic Session.

THE EROTIC SESSION:

Every woman will provide a body rub to at least one man during the course of her lifetime that includes a traditional Happy Ending using her hands. Gals on Backpage become "experts" at that type of Happy Ending. And in fact you have probably given yourself many Happy Endings!

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Most gals follow one of two "techniques": 1. they ask the gentleman how he masturbates himself and they try to imitate his "technique", or: 2. they just use some sort of up and down "rub and tug technique" I emphasize the word "technique"; because in reality most gals do not really follow any systematic process that could really be called a "technique".

I prefer to follow the "GEISHA GIRL" technique of providing a prolonged, erotic Happy Ending. The chances are pretty good you have never visited a real Geisha Girl in Japan and thus you probably have no idea of what I am talking about. I would love to provide a ten-page description of a proper Geisha Girl Happy Ending, but Backpage censors such descriptions very, very heavily so I cannot do so on Backpage.

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That is why I have created this Webpage. (In fact, I can not even use the words “Happy Ending”, “Head”, “Hands”, and many other simple words on Backpage because those words are censored!)

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And I won't go into long detail over the phone to describe a Geisha Style Happy Ending -- too many guys are simply trying to masturbate themselves while I give the description over the phone. So I will try to describe a Geisha Style Happy Ending to you.

I offer two different kinds of Happy Endings: Traditional or Geisha.

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For a Traditional American Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that you use your hands when you provide your own Happy Ending to your own masturbation sessions. In order to do this, I will need to ask you how you do this part when you are by yourself! If you use your right hand when you pleasure yourself, then I’ll use my right hand standing at your right side so that my hand is in the same position your hand would be in. If you use up and down motions with pressure on the downward motion, I will do the same. If you add a twisting motion, so will I. Perhaps you can show me a stroke or two! I will try to do as you would do unto yourself!

For a Geisha Japanese Happy Ending, I use my hands in exactly the same way that the Geisha Providers of Japan use their hands when they provide Happy Endings to gentlemen. It is extremely unlikely that you know what this is – unless you have been to Japan!! This Geisha type of Happy Ending is radically different than a Traditional Happy Ending usually given in the United States.

A Geisha Provider spends a considerable amount of time and effort diligently applying different techniques of an exquisitely erotic and sensual nature to the most private part of your body in an intelligent, thoughtful manner. A Geisha Provider keeps 2 hands on the gentleman’s genitals at all times, with both hands doing different things.

Usually, one hand strokes the shaft of the penis in upward/downward motions, sometimes with a gentle twisting motion, and using various degrees of pressure. This hand may extend down and caress the testicles from time to time, as desired, but never extends upward enough to touch the head of the penis.

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The other hand focuses solely on the head of the penis at all times. This hand explores the head of the penis much like your hand explores a clitoris and /or vagina – which is to say, with extreme interest!

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Sometimes the fingertips form a circle around the crest of the head, sometimes just one fingertip circles the crest. Sometimes the fingertips go up and down like an octopus. Sometimes the entire hand closes, using various degrees of pressure from time to time.

Then the unexpected element of playfulness enters in. You have probably played with a woman’s clitoris during the course of your lifetime. You have probably rubbed your fingers up and down, side to side. You have twisted it, pulled it, tugged it, and even strummed your fingers across it. You absolutely loved playing with that clitoris. Don’t you wish you had a woman who would absolutely love playing with your penis as much as you love playing with a clitoris?

As the moment for the ultimate explosion nears, the hand stroking the shaft of the penis increases pressure and intensity and speed, while the hand attending the head of the penis forms itself into the shape of a vaginal opening. Your penis will think it is pumping in and out of a vagina!

When you give yourself a Happy Ending, you probably follow the same exact routine each and every time, with no experimenting. You probably use the same hand in the same location using the same kind of stroke and the same amount of pressure. And when you visit a gal for a Happy Ending, she probably follows her own way of providing a Happy Ending – or perhaps asks you how you do it.

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But it would be an extremely rare event for a woman to really, really focus her love and attention on your penis the way that you have loved and attended a clitoris!! And no matter how much you might want to lavish your own love and attentions on your own penis, you cannot do so. It would never feel good! You cannot tickle yourself. No one can. You can only be tickled by someone else. The same is true of what I am trying to describe! Only another person can give your penis the kind of love and attention I am describing!

And as good as that description may sound, I know this: you’ll have a lot of personal favorite things! So tell them to me. I want you to have the best Happy Ending you can possibly have!

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I do not have a video that shows me providing a Happy Ending. But I have found a video that I like, so I'll give you the cite so you may watch for yourself:

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https://xhamster.com/videos/the-best-cock-massage-1309574

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A lot of clients have asked me if the gal in the video is me. When I say it is not me, they ask for a description of the differences between her session and mine. This is how I respond:

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No, that is not me in the video. That is an actress! Our sessions are similar, but different.

Differences:

First, I deliver a professional massage for 60 minutes. I am trained. Second, I scratch the entire body for about 10 minutes. Third, I gently touch the entire body with gentle fingertip touches for about 10 minutes.

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I use three teases: strip tease, nipple tease, genital tease. I use two non-discernable techniques: continuity, predictability. The gal in the video does not do those things. She does not do a strip tease -- she keeps her clothes on, I take mine off. She does not do a nipple tease. She does not do a genital tease -- she just grabs it with no teasing. She takes hands on and off and on and off -- I keep at least one hand on at all times. Where her hands will land after she takes them off is unpredictable!!! With me, you'll exactly what is coming next without me explaining!!

Similarities:

I include her video as an example of how a Happy Ending may involve traditional styles and / or geisha styles. She blends the two styles in alternating formats. I love the way she does that. [I do not like her lack of the teases, her lack of continuity, her lack of predictability, her general body rub technique.]

Another difference:

The gal in the video has a young man who is full of pep and energy. He is on his hands and knees the whole time, and he has a penis long enough to allow the gal to give it plenty of attention. In the real world, not many men have a penis that long, nor are most men comfortable in that position for that long of a period of time. I find that men are more comfortable lying on their backs with their penis staring straight up at the ceiling -- or me!

The Main Point:

The main point is that the gal in the video delivers a supremely wonderful Happy Ending. [Granted, the man in the video seems completely unaware of her presence – at least there is a successful ending.] The main point is that Happy Endings can be better than Great Sex if done in a creative, intelligent, artistic, thoughtful way!!

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SESSION 4: THE LABIUM SUPERIUS / INFERIUS ORIS STIMULATION SESSION:

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Sorry to say I do not provide Session 4. If you are interested in a complete description of Session 4, please see my book titled "How To Make Love"! Details below. Session 4 is an extremely intimate session designed to give each partner an opportunity to discover the hidden erogenous zones of the other partner. 

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​THE THREE TEASES:

I use three teases during the course of my time with you. These three teases are placed throughout the three sessions, popping up often here and there in random, unpredictable manners. These three teases are

less noticeable, more subtle.

TEASE 1: STRIP TEASE:

I try to recreate the great episodes. I know one thing for sure – the great ones need time!! Carly Simon sings “Anticipation” like a woman who knows what she is talking about!! She knows that the great episodes are those where the participants build up the anticipation over time. That is the first thing I do!

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The first tease is a nonchalant strip tease. When we get started, I will change into my special outfits. I may dress like a professional strip tease dancer – that is to say, I will have a lot of layers hiding my entire body! Over the course of time, I will remove these layers one by one until only my birthday suit remains!!

Usually, I will dress in three layers: a bra/panty outfit, a lingerie outfit over that, and a robe covering everything! You’ll be trying to see what lies under my outfit!! You’ll be anxious to see more. Alfred Hitchcock knew that a man’s mind is more active when his mind must imagine what lies beneath!

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The total revelation is not needed. The mind is more excited by what it imagines than by what the eyes see. He was a master of suspense. I try to be! Yes, of course eventually your eyes will see absolutely everything without the obstruction of clothes. But that is eventually, not right now.

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If every woman walked around completely naked, guys would get bored. The magic, the mystery would disappear. If I appeared at the door completely naked, the reality would not be as tantalizing as the suggestion. Have you ever been to a strip tease show? The beautiful woman does not first appear completely naked. Instead, she appears completely dressed. Then she proceeds to slowly remove articles of clothing over time! I like to do the same!! It has worked for thousands of years, so why try to change the system now!

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Yes, eventually I will indeed have no clothes on whatsoever – just like you!!

TEASE 2: NIPPLE TEASE:

At some point, I will be topless! Now a woman’s greatest weapon is present: nipples. I use these to erotically tease you by “accidentally” letting them gently touch various parts of your body as I lean over him, from time to time, in random places.

TEASE 3: GENITAL TEASE:

At some point, many points actually, I will be in close proximity to your genitals! As I reach across your various body parts, I allow parts of my body (my hands, my elbows, my nipples) to “accidentally” graze across your genitals. I will let your penis become somewhat aroused from time to time, without direct attention! This is teasing! I may tease on a scale of 1 to 10, from a little to pure torture. I might ask him how much you like to be teased on that scale – or I just might assume you want to be teased to the point of pure torture!

CONTINUITY AND PREDICTABILITY:

These two elements transform a good body rub into a great body rub. My technique incorporates continuity and predictability. Continuity means that from the time my hands first touch your body to formally commence our session until the time I adjourn, my hands never, never, never leave your body (except to get hot towel compresses and to clean my hands after touching your feet). Every second of every minute of that time, at least one of my hands will be touching your body. Never will I break contact completely. [The only exception to this will be when I complete the rub of your feet, then I will wash my hands so that I do not spread bacteria from your feet to the other areas of your body; I will tell you that I am going to go wash my hands and you will know that I will only be a few feet away.]

This continuity is very, very important. When a lady breaks contact, the client is disrupted. He doesn’t know where she is going or how long she will be gone. In reality, she is just going to get more oil or to move to the other side of the table, but in his imagination he doesn’t know where he are going or what she will do next. Imagine eating a great meal at a fine restaurant. You don’t expect the waiter / waitress to just swing by and unexpectedly remove your plate after you’ve had just a few bites and then return it a few moments later! You would be shocked by that behavior. Not surprisingly, you would be just as shocked if I take my hands off your body for a few moments during a massage/rub. Your body will not be pleased at unexpected interruptions!

Predictability is almost as important as continuity. When I pay attention to your first arm/hand, your mind will subconsciously note the methodical sequence of events. I will then replay that same exact methodical sequence when I pay attention to your next arm/hand, then your first leg/foot, then your next leg/foot.

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Your mind will already know what is coming. When continuity and predictability combine, your body will relax faster and further than ever before. You will feel just like a baby in a car seat going for a gentle car ride. [Yes, you may indeed fall asleep.]

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You probably won’t notice these two techniques. They are subtle and they are not intended to be conspicuous. They stay in the background. But they magnify the relaxation powers ten-fold. They transform a good body rub into a great body rub.

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NERVOUSNESS HAPPENS:

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Are you nervous about coming to visit me? I understand nervousness. There are many reasons to be nervous!

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A client wrote these words to me after a recent visit:

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"Hey, I want to thank you wholeheartedly for taking the time to talk with me today. I can't tell you how much I truly appreciate the fact that you were genuinely interested in conversing, and even extended an invitation to call you if needed as well. I enjoyed meeting you, Sofia.

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"Also, thank you for waiting out my nervousness. I felt like a clumsy teenager at first, but you helped me through it. Strangely enough, some jokes about suffocation, tommy guns and chloroform helped. I'm not sure what that says about me. For the record, at no point did I actually fear I'd wake up 12 hours later in a bathtub full of ice and one kidney. I don't have you pegged as the bait in a black market organ harvesting operation. 

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"You really are very wise, Sofia. I hope to visit you the next time you're in Minnesota. I don't believe I will have sweaty feet again, they haven't done that at all since I left and honestly I haven't noticed them doing that before. That was gross. Sorry  

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Take care,"

DONATIONS AND DISCLAIMER:

​The following information is provided in accordance with client disclosure requirements. I am not a licensed physician. The treatment provided is an alternative to or is complimentary to healing arts services licensed by the State. The services provided are not regulated by the State. Services provided are for relation therapy, which may include application of one or more of the following: aroma therapy, sound therapy, herbal treatments, touch therapy, and gentle touching. This treatment is based upon the theory that stress causes and intensifies symptoms of physical ailments and a person heals more quickly and effectively when relaxed. Each treatment is tailored to the individual client in order to help the client relax to the greatest extent possible. I have made a lifelong, independent study of energy flow (chi) within the body. I have over 2 years experience in applying the various modalities to help clients achieve a state of relaxation.

This is not ad for prostitution. The services advertised are for alternative or complimentary health care. The service provider is not licensed as a healing arts practitioner.

NOTE: Any money exchanged is for companionship purposes only, for which I ask for a donation for my time. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of choice between consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. This is NOT an offer of any illegal service. I do not provide any "extra" services above what I describe herein -- I do not offer any illegal services or prostitution services. I do not allow any type of drug use whatsoever!!

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I ask for a donation based solely as a voluntary donation made in exchange for time, not for specific services.

Body Rub With Happy Ending (American Traditional or Japanese Geisha or a Combination):

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$200 for one hour​​​​​

$300 for one and a half hours 

$350 for two hours

$400 for two and a half hours

$450 for three hours

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I ask for an additional donation of $50 for "outcall" services.

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For all other services (e.g., fetish services), please add an additional $50 to the above.

I do not provide "escort services" nor "full service".

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My eBooks:

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"How To Get More Sex": $15

"How To Cure Male Sexual Performance Problems": $15

"How To Make Love": $15

Any 2 books: $25

All 3 books: $30

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USUALLY IN LIFE, YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR:

I like this quote: The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of the low price is forgotten. My philosophy is simple: pay enough to get what you really want because not getting what you really want isn't really worth anything! Gentlemen have told me their complaints about seeing a young woman for a low price, then feeling ripped out that they were shoved out the door in 10 minutes! The young woman just wanted a quick $80 for a ten-minute happy ending so she can get the next

customer in the door.

What were those gentlemen thinking? A middle aged gentleman should see a middle aged lady. And should spend as much time pursuing her as he did pursuing his first date when he was a young man! You have probably had experiences already where you spent $80 expecting a full hour of attention, only to be rushed out the door in 10 minutes. You felt you didn’t get what you paid for, right? It is better to pay enough to get what you really want than to pay too little for something you really didn’t want at all.